Are You Getting What You Need?

“You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you get what you need…” That Rolling Stones refrain is playing in my head repeatedly of late and it seems...

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Do You Have Both Feet in Your Relationship?

Although I don’t remember the exact day that I pulled the one foot that I had out the door back into my marriage, today, celebrating 24 years of marriage, I can’t remember the...

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The People You Love – Giving The Benefit Of The Doubt Even When It Feels Like...

Here’s a new years resolution that anyone can keep.  Give the people you love, starting with yourself, the benefit of the doubt.  Generally speaking and almost without...

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Wired to Connect: Why Technology Keeps You From Really Connecting With Your...

Sustainable love, the kind that we use as a compass to keep us connected to a vital, healthy and happy relationships are now being recognized as skills that might just save our...

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Why Play is Crucial to the Game of Love

It is said that the game of love is everyone’s favorite game, and yet even with all the new technologies designed to help us connect, more and more people are opting out of the...

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Sexual Penetration And What It REALLY Means…

Language is the metaphor we use to communicate our deepest feelings.  A couple’s sexuality is the most profound vehicle of communication available.  The words we use and our...

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Why Your Relationship Success Depends on Feeling Your Feelings

Regardless of what kind of relationship you are in, the foundation for its success is based on your ability to experience and articulate your feelings. The authentic self...

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