Can Your Friends Or Lovers Be Holding You Back?

The mutual flow of respect and support is essential to all healthy, sustainable relationships. Whether friends or lovers, we all want to believe those closest to us want for us to...

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Presents Or Presence?

I got an email recently after I gave a talk at a booksigning. I’d talked about being present and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who were also present. The...

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Sustainable Relationships

If you have had a few relationships you know what I mean by “sustainability,” especially ones that have been a source of pain or suffering to some degree. (Some of which have...

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7 Ways To Tell If Your Friends Are True

I grew up with my mother telling me I was lucky if I could count all my real friends on one hand! Of course, I didn’t listen then but it occurred to me after a string of...

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Marriage Essentials – The Top 3 Non-Negotiables For Lasting Nuptials

Here’s the deal; the facts are in. At least 50% of marriages don’t make it—which, if you’re a gambler, is slightly better than a crap shoot. Celebrities are notorious for...

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Top 10 Qualities Most People Want In Their Partners

Aren’t you just dying to know what a potential partner wants from you? Fortunately there are books and books out there to help you figure out just that. And one of the latest...

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How Men Can Create Healthy And Happy Relationships

Guys, this one’s for you – and ladies, feel free to pass it on to any guy you know in your life who’s on a path toward thinking holistically about love, relationships and...

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How To Smell A Rat In The Dating Game – Or Find Out If YOU Are One! (Quiz)

People ask me all the time how to have a great relationship, how to date successfully, or meet someone and start a healthy dating pattern. I usually ask them the same two...

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Feel Good About Yourself? Then GO For It!

We often enter into two types of relationships – those that make us feel good about ourselves: confident, accomplished! – and then those that, well, make us feel the opposite:...

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Are You Sure You Can Handle The Truth?

Ever wondered what would happen if you told “the whole truth and nothing but the truth”? I’ve come to a point in my life and in my relationship where that is one of my...

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How To Tell If Someone Really Likes You

I call them “leakers.” What’s a leaker? Someone who flirts with you, wants you to want them, who enjoys and prefers the chase, the hunt, the rush and the kill. Sounds messy...

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5 MORE Tips For When You’re Alone And Lonely – Part 2

Being alone can be, well, LONELY! And most of us – even those who like to be alone – don’t really like to be lonely. But what can we do about it? What do you do when you...

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