Thinking of Proposing? You’d Better Think About More Than The Ring!

A man in Fairfield, Connecticut bought his bride-to-be a $25,000 engagement ring.  This is not a news flash here; I suppose there are lots of well-to-do men buying their...

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What ME a Sex Addict?

Only a few of us think that the way we participate in sexual activity is addictive, but often the beginnings of sexual addictions show up in covert ways that we may miss if we are...

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Why Have I Lost All Interest In Having Sex?

Losing interest in sex when you’ve been in a relationship for awhile, and even if you haven’t, can be frustrating and even embarrassing. You want to experience your partner...

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I’m In A Sexless Marriage! What Happened?

Many people find themselves in sexless marriages. As unfortunate as it is, if you’re in a sexless marriage, you’re not alone. Does that mean you have to live with it? Of...

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Is There Life After Cheating? Can You Survive An Affair?

No matter how long you’ve been in a relationship, an affair can completely turn your world upside down. Whether you were the cheater or the one who was cheated on, when the...

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Five Little Words That Strike Fear Into The Hearts Of Men

Everyone knows that guys get freaked out at the age old question, “How do you feel about our relationship?” Even statements along the lines of “We need to talk” usually...

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How To Break The Communication Gridlock And Save Your Marriage

As a child I heard that “children are best seen not heard” so often I never spoke up in public about anything.  We are taught to keep our thoughts and feelings to ourselves...

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Do You Know Why Your Partner is Pushing You Away?

Don was a tall thin, ex bass guitar player of 43 who had been sober for 18 months.  He had, for the first time in his adult life begun to experience the pleasure of being alive...

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Do You Even Know What You’re Fighting About?

If you’ve ever gotten into a fight with a partner over something seemingly silly, you might have been very confused about why it was such a big deal. And yet, it may have been...

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Think Cheaters Are Always the Bad Guys? You May Be Wrong…

It’s all over the media, Maury Pauvich,  Joey Bosco’s “Cheater” series,  the front page of the New York Times with the story of Elliot Spitzer, and of course, Bill...

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The Secret Cure For A Dwindling Sex Life

One Christmas a girlfriend of mine handed out packages to our little group of friends.  One by one my friends opened their packages containing beautiful flannel pajamas from...

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How To Move Beyond Childhood Abuse And Have Healthier Relationships As An Adult

Jim looked at Shannon with a cacophony of feelings; love, lust, appreciation and fear and wanted desperately to reach for her. Shannon could sense his looking at her, in spite of...

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