He Needs To Make You Happy

He said, “I need to make you happy to even have a shot at being happy.” The words are spoken by Ben Affleck to Jennifer Aniston in the movie He’s Just Not That Into You. For...

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Want Better Lovin’? Lower Your Expectations!

Men who like women understand women and don’t need them to change very much. Women who like men understand men and don’t need them to change very much. This lack of need or...

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If You Are The “Other Woman,” Read THIS!

When a man has an affair with a woman who does not match his wife in terms of intelligence, accomplishment, and class, it is because he has no intention of replacing his wife with...

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Tips For Holidays With The Family – Thanksgiving, Christmas, And New Year’s

The holidays can be one of the most emotionally trying times of the year, especially if your family dynamics are complicated. In fact, Ram Dass says that the best way to test how...

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Whether You Are With A Cougar Or A Sugar Daddy, Here’s How To Make The Age...

Even though the social situation of men dating and marrying “cougars” seems to be a relatively new idea, it’s actually been around for quite awhile. Some famous cougar women...

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The Cuddle Chemical Is Good News For Her, Bad News For Him

A secret to relationship happiness that I’m going to share with you today comes from a teleconference I was on with Dr. John Gray, the Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars...

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Confidence Is Nature’s Best Aphrodisiac

“Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. It’s much sexier than any body part.” – Aimee Mullins I remember as a teenager, being so self-absorbed, hoping my Prince...

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Are You Trying To Outmaneuver (Or Out-Mother) His Mother?

When you try to take the place of your man’s mother, even compete with her for his attention, you are trying to outmaneuver her at her game. That isn’t the game you want to...

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What Gives A Woman Sex Appeal?

Recently I ran across a fellow relationship coach’s online sales copy for a membership site she offers to women.  It promised all kinds of yummy things.  Better sex, greater...

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The Problem With Pleasure

The problem with pleasure is nothing…except the interpretation we bring to it.  Sometimes I think the only other topic with more confusion around it is that of money (i.e. the...

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T Is How Men Spell Love

I got a phone call this week from a woman whose relationship was falling apart. It had been fading for a long time and likely didn’t have the potential to be re-birthed. She...

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Grief Can Affect Your Relationship In Surprising Ways

Our beloved dog, Buddy, died this week.  As a rescue dog, we were never sure of his age, but believe he was at least fifteen.  He was a big black dog with white and black dotted...

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