The People You Love – Giving The Benefit Of The Doubt Even When It Feels Like The Last Thing You Want To Do

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Here’s a new years resolution that anyone can keep.  Give the people you love, starting with yourself, the benefit of the doubt.  Generally speaking and almost without exception most of us are doing the best that we can at any given moment.  We are being as loving as we can be, as … [Read more...]

Next Time You Have A Breakdown In Communication, Consider This…

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When a woman falls in love with a man, he makes her feel safe, protected, and cherished.  She makes him feel seen and respected.  These gifts we give each other satisfy ancient longings housed in our biology.  They are why we trust each other so quickly, connect so deeply, and start planning for the … [Read more...]

Men Are from Way Farther Away Than Mars!

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Many  of you probably have read the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus and many of the rest you have heard things about it if you haven't read it. Well, I didn't write it. But I worked with John Gray for 18 years, wrote workshops and a training based on the Mars Venus stuff and trained … [Read more...]

It’s OK to Trust: How You Can Overcome The Fear of Intimacy

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Cold silences. Angry outbursts. Heart wrenching dread that he (or she) is cheating on you. Suddenly everything starts going wrong, and a relationship that seemed so promising is suddenly on the brink of disaster. You can’t imagine how things could break down so rapidly. Fear of Intimacy This problem … [Read more...]