What do you do when you meet the perfect girl in college, but then you both graduate and your jobs take you to different cities? Can a... continue reading
What do you do when you meet the perfect girl in college, but then you both graduate and your jobs take you to different cities?
Can a long distance relationship work? We believe that it can under the right circumstances.
What if SHE doesn’t think it can? How do you convince her? This one’s a little more tricky…
Here’s a great question from a guy in this very predicament.
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
I have known my girlfriend for about 2.5 years and we have been dating for 2 years. We met in college and both graduated in December We knew that we would live in separate cities in October. she adamantly stated at the time that she WOULD NOT and COULD NOT do a long distance relationship
But, because we both love each other, we stayed together anyway…
We have been living apart for 3 months now and have seen each other just about every other weekend. When we are together, we are both very happy. If you were to judge our relationship based on the weekends we spend together, it would be very healthy, but she seems to let the physical separation affect her opinion about our relationship…she still holds the mindset that long distance relationships do not work.
She tells me that she is extremely lonely during the week and needs human contact.
This long distance relationship is getting to be very difficult. I do think that our relationship would be very solid if we were living in the same city. We are each other’s best friends and have talked about marriage in the future.
What can we do to make sure our relationship lasts? I would also like her to change her negative attitude about the physical separation and have her maybe just consider moving to my second job location. Any advice would be appreciated!