Balanced Relationships: You, Me and We


One thing I notice in a lot of couples who come through my door is a lack of balance in their relationship. What do I mean by this? When two people come together there are now three parts to this system; “you,” “me,” and “we.” Imagine if you draw two overlapping circles. There are three parts – the … [Read more...]

Aaaahh! Why Does She Want to Be ‘Just Friends’?


We've all known someone who's loved a woman from a distance... wanted to be with her, but wasn't sure how to share his feelings for her, how to go up to her and ask her out. But what's EVEN WORSE is loving her from no distance at all... being her best friend and wanting, hoping, wishing it could be … [Read more...]

The Relationship Secret – How to Use the Law of Attraction in Your Relationships


Dear Dan and Jennifer, I have read a lot on the law of attraction (including your article on writing down the description of your perfect mate - which I did), but I have one question I cannot find the answer to and I'm hoping you can help me.  I've been dating a man on and off for 5 years and while … [Read more...]

High School Sweethearts In Jeopardy – Are We Growing Apart?


It's hard enough for grown adults to stay together and have a happy, long lasting relationship... but that's nothing next to the challenges faced by high school sweethearts. These young lovers have the odds really stacked against them, and yet many stay together for the long run. But put yourself … [Read more...]