Lots of guys use the same sex positions over and over. The trouble with these guys when it comes to having sex is that they are boring and stick to the same old routines and positions that get them off quickly. Sadly this leaves little room for a woman’s sexual fulfillment. But if you are willing to add a little excitement and variety to your sex positions, you could accelerate and accentuate a woman’s ability to enjoy sex and even have an orgasm. And I have not even talked about how much that would do to your confidence in bed!
The “C.A.T.” Technique
The Coital Alignment Technique is a surprisingly easy variation of the conventional missionary position. The only difference is that instead of direct penetration, the man’s pubic mound is pressed and rubbed against the woman’s. So instead of penetrating in and out, the thrusting movements are more akin to grinding or gyrating. Such rhythmic grinding will stimulate the clitoris and build up your lover’s arousal much faster. This means she will enjoy an orgasm earlier as well!
Whoever said the missionary position is a woman’s favorite? Instead let your lover get on top of you and give her control during intercourse. By allowing your partner to control the thrusts and intensity of penetration, you can make sure that she derives maximum pleasure for herself! The added bonus is that while she is sitting on top of you, you can simultaneously stimulate your lover’s breasts and clitoris to build up the arousal very quickly.
For a variation of this position, have your lover face away from you. This allows you to have a greater chance of stimulating your partner’s G-spot with your male anatomy. (Hint: the woman-on-top position is also great for guys suffering from premature ejaculation)
Titillating Doggy Style
Doggy style is one of the best positions for both men and women. Many women experience powerful orgasms in this position because it allows deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation. Furthermore, when a woman is on all fours, you have more control with the thrusts and can go harder and faster than you could in the missionary position.
Alternatively, you can also vary this position by having your lover lay flat on the tummy and allow your partner to raise the buttocks during penetration.
Let your partner lie on her back, lift your lover’s legs up so that they embrace your shoulders and then enter the vagina. This allows you to penetrate deeply and hit the G-spot, especially if you have a penis that bends slightly upwards when erect.
For a variation of this position, have your lover lay somewhere with the legs up (on a table, for example) so that you can enter your partner without having to kneel down. This gives you more leverage and also let you have easier access to the clitoris. Hint: Give simultaneous clitoral stimulation using your thumb when you are penetrating your lover. This will double your partner’s delight and prime your partner for a truly fulfilling orgasm… only faster!