BDSM 101 – Moving Beyond Plain Vanilla Sex

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A male friend of mine told me about something embarrassing that happened to him. He was in the throes of passionate sex with his girlfriend when, in a gesture of instinct, he put his hand over her face. Immediately she froze in horror and blurted, “What are you doing?” Well, how do you answer … [Read more...]

How to Get Your Freak On – The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM

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A few months ago, I was talking to my new sex partner about what I liked in bed. “I like it a little rough,” I said, “You know, some hair pulling and some smacks on my butt while we’re having sex.” He sat and pondered this and said, “Have you ever been bent over someone’s knee and … [Read more...]

The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist

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It’s a Pervert Party, and you’re invited! Copy this list into a word processing program so you can edit it, or print it out. For each question assign a number based on this scale: 5 = This is something I REALLY like. Bring it on, baby! 4 = This is fun! Let’s go for it. 3= I'm not sure, kinda … [Read more...]

Ooh, It Hurts So Good: Sadism & Masochism – The Pleasure of Pain…

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The first time I ever had sex was on the hardwood floor of a friend’s house. He was older, on top, and yep, it hurt. But I was amazed at how receptive I was to that discomfort, how I welcomed it and accepted it as part of the complete sex package. Years later, I still feel that mingling of … [Read more...]

What Everyone Ought to Know About BDSM

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That’s right, acronyms aren't just for the office anymore – it can be a regular alphabet soup in the bedroom, too. I’m talking about BDSM - the ultimate antidote to vanilla sex. Sure sex feels good on its own, but have you ever thought about taking it up a notch, pushing your boundaries? Do you … [Read more...]