Giving Her An Orgasm – The Ultimate Pat On The Back

Every man hopes to make a girl climax every time he has sex with her, but the truth is that this doesn’t always happen. It’s no secret that sometimes women fake during sex, because they don’t want to make the man’s inability to perform as a big issue that could damage a relatively good relationship. If a girl doesn’t climax during sex, her partner feels extremely insecure, and she knows it.

However, what every man should realize is that the relationship only stays good when everything that goes on inside the relationship is pleasing to both partners. If sex continues to be lousy, the relationship will fall apart sooner than you think.

Making a woman reach orgasm is physically and psychologically gratifying, and we know it. Now, it’s time to discover some of the things that make women climax faster, read on!

Help Her Relax

There are factors that affect our over-all performance in the bedroom, some of which we cannot control (her stress level, her feelings etc.) The only thing we can do is to concentrate on the factors that we can control, like our bedroom skills and making a woman comfortable enough to reach climax faster.

An erotic massage will get her thinking about sex, and the better you massage her, the faster she can climax. This means using your fingers and tongue to caress her most sensitive areas, like her clitoris and her breasts.

Learn From The Way She Masturbates

The thing is, a woman can climax quickly when she is masturbating. Every woman has a special way of doing this, and you can learn a lot from observing the way she masturbates in your presence. If you cannot seem to make her climax during sex, one way to learn how is to take note of what she does, where she’s touching, and what she thinks about during masturbation.

Here’s what you can do. Tell her to pretend that you’re not around and she’s all alone. It will help if you can make her share her deepest, darkest fantasies with you so you can react accordingly.

Role Playing

A woman’s psyche during sex is greatly affected by what she’s thinking. If she’s bored with the same old scenario, you can go somewhere unfamiliar like a hotel room, or a resort. Then, think of a role playing scenario and act it out. Like men, women get their kicks out of certain sexual situations and your goal is to learn the nature of her sex fantasies so you can replicate it every time.

Comfort level plays a big role in making a woman orgasm, and your goal as her lover should be to encourage her to relax long enough for her to climax. You might notice that I didn’t include tips like “going down on her” or fingering. Any man can do these things, but the real trick to getting her to climax has something to do with the way you help her relax, emotionally and physically, during sex.


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