The Elusive G-Spot – How To Find It And What To Do With It When You Do

Orgasms by themselves are often difficult for many women to achieve, let alone the mystical G-Spot orgasm. Learning how to find the G-Spot and achieve orgasm solely through penetration is an incredible way to strengthen the sexual bond you have with your partner and enrich your sex life.

The trick is, how tricky is it?

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

My girlfriend can only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation.  I want to pleasure her more – how can I find the G-spot everyone is talking about and make sex with her last longer?

–Sean, Oklahoma

Needing Clitoral Stimulation

If your partner needs clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm every time, don’t worry – it’s perfectly normal. In fact, that’s why the clitoris is there – providing pleasure and orgasm is it’s only job. That doesn’t mean that you should give up on the elusive G-Spot though.

Learning how to pleasure your partner through both clitoral and G-Spot stimulation can help make your sex life incredibly satisfying for both you and your partner. Did you know that a woman can even have a clitoral orgasm and a G-Spot orgasm at the same time?

In fact, clitoral stimulation will often help a G-Spot orgasm along and vice versa. If you’re interested in finding a woman’s G-Spot, there is a ton of literature that will give you some great information on how to find it and what to do with it when you do.

Practice Makes Perfect

When you begin learning the techniques you need to use to bring your partner to orgasm through G-Spot stimulation, you may not be very good at it right away. It takes time to learn what your partner likes and what they don’t like and even the best techniques may need to be modified according to your partner’s specific likes and dislikes.

Take some time to practice with your partner and try different techniques until you find the ones that work the best. You can also try looking online for forums or message boards where other people have talked about the techniques they like to use. Don’t be afraid to add your input – you might get some tips from other people that can really help you out.

Providing Feedback

The most important aspect of learning how to pleasure your partner through G-Spot stimulation is to be open to receiving feedback and of course, making sure your partner is open to giving feedback. While trying out different techniques, let your partner know that she should tell you what feels good and what doesn’t.

If she has any suggestions on what might feel better or how to modify a certain technique to make it more pleasurable, let her know that suggestions are welcome. Be open to receiving positive criticism as well – it’s a learning process and you’ll learn much more if you are open to listening about what you’re doing right (and wrong) without getting your feelings hurt.

This way, you can learn what really gets your partner going, whether it’s G-Spot stimulation, clitoral stimulation or a mixture of the two.

Learning how to reach the G-Spot and how to pleasure your partner through G-Spot stimulation isn’t always easy and it does take some patience from both partners.

With time, effort and a positive attitude, you can use G-Spot stimulation during intercourse, oral sex and other types of sexual play to enhance your partner’s pleasure and make your sex life and sexual connection more satisfying.


Related Articles

read more articles on Orgasm