How To Get Your Girl To Want To Watch Porn With You

Getting your girl to WANT to watch porn might seem like a very difficult task, but it doesn’t have to be. Men tend to forget that women have the same sexual urges and crave affection, whether this is through physicality or emotional connections. It is also important to remember that a lot of women and men have self-esteem issues. When you want your girl to crave watching porn you must make sure that she knows there is zero chance of cheating.

Here are some easy to follow steps to get your girlfriend or wife to love porn and want it in your love life without emotional distress.

Get On The Same Page

There is a lot of emotion that goes into watching porn. For women, porn can be a great way to boost the passion in the bedroom, but some can get turned on by the different scenes and sex positions. It’s not usually the scenarios or the actual acts that turn women off. Most have a naughty side that loves peeking into the sexual escapades of others. What can turn them off is their own self-confidence.

When you want your girlfriend to crave this type of material you have to make sure that you are on the same page with your relationship. Some women think that men watch porn because their girlfriends and wives are not enough for them. While this could be true in some circumstances, it’s usually not.  Talk to her and tell her that you think it could enhance your sex life, but that you are committed to her.

Get Porn That She Likes

If you are going to get her to like porn then you need to get porn that she will actually find hot. It’s counterproductive to buy porn that you think is hot and she thinks is disgusting. Take a trip to your local adult store or get online to find porn that she thinks she’s going to like. Porn is getting so inexpensive these days that you can easily get a lot for very little. If she’s not sure what she is going to like, just try to make an educated decision. Does she think that lesbian porn is hot? Get a few different DVDs and try them out. There is such a huge variety out there that literally everybody can find something that will turn them on.

Let Her Watch It By Herself

One of the biggest mistakes that men make is forcing their girlfriends and wives to watch porn while they are in the room. This can promote a few problems.

The first problem is that they are not going to react to the porn the way that would if they were alone. They might not be comfortable watching porn with you in the room if this is their first time out.

The second problem is that there is an expectation that the porn is going to turn them on. If they don’t find it hot then it can put a damper on situation and she might react differently than if she were alone.

The third problem is that there is an expectation of sex when you are in the room. Let her watch the videos by herself to see what she thinks. She will feel much more comfortable bringing this into the bedroom once she has tried it out in private.

Turn The Porn Off!

As stated before, porn can really enhance a relationship, but it can also hinder it. Women that watch porn can easily become offended by the images and the portrayal of women within the different scenes. While some women get turned on by two women giving each other oral sex, others do not. A little bit of porn can turn a woman on, but the instance of keeping it on while you have sex can promote a huge problem in the relationship. This is where feelings of low self-esteem and “being not enough” can come into play.

Once your girlfriend or wife has gotten turned on, it’s time to turn off the porn. Only if she insists on keeping it on should you actually do it. The main theme here is that you don’t want to cross the line. Once she feels comfortable watching porn with you she’s probably going to crave it the next time it’s available during sex. If you do cross the line then there may not be any coming back.


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