How To Become More Sexually Confident

Everyone has insecurities, worries and apprehensions about sex. The first step to reducing your insecurities is realizing that you’re absolutely normal, you’re not alone and no one is 100% smooth and confident when it comes to sex. But does that mean you have to bumble your way around the bedroom? Of course not! You can start reducing your sexual insecurities now and stop being a sexual dud – it’s time to learn how to become a master of sexual pleasure and become confident about your skills in the sack!

Accepting Your Insecurities

Everyone has insecurities about sex, even if they seem confident. People might be worried about the way they look naked or how they compare to their partner’s other lovers. They might be unsure that they will last long in bed or that their sexual skills will be up to snuff. Insecurities and worries plague everyone, so if you’re not totally and completely confident when it comes to sex, you’re certainly not alone. This goes for men and women who have had multiple sex partners or have never had sex before at all. Start accepting your sexual insecurities as being a perfectly natural part of being human. Once you do, you’ll start move past them. If you stay focused on your worries, you’ll never be able to be sexually confident!

Learn Sexual Skills

Sexual skills don’t come naturally to everyone – if anyone! How to please someone sexually is something that must be learned rather than something that just happens. If you haven’t taken the time to research and learn different ways to please someone in bed, it’s time to start! Whether you’ve never had sex before or have had multiple sex partners, there are always things you can learn about oral sex, anal sex, sex positions and how to blow your partner’s mind. There are tons of great resources on how to give a woman an orgasm, find the g-spot or send a man through the roof by giving him an amazing blowjob. As you learn more and more ways to pleasure your partner, you’ll become increasingly more confident in your ability to give someone an orgasm. The more skills you master, the more confident you’ll be in the bedroom!

Practice Makes Perfect

Sure, reading a book on how to give a blowjob or how to go down on her is great, but you’re never going to get really good at it unless you’re able to put the techniques you’re learning into practice. If you want to get good at anything – whether it’s baseball or sex – you have to practice what you learn regularly. If you’re expecting to become absolutely great at sex overnight, it’s not going to happen – it takes time. Of course, sex practice is a lot more fun than sports practice! To become a real sex master, have sex as much as you can and put your skills to the test again and again. Your partner will really enjoy having sex more often, as well as being the subject of your practice! Both you and your partner will notice your improvement the more that you have sex, and you and your partner can even have fun learning how to pleasure each other together!


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