How To Play With HIS Nipples

Playing with a man’s nipples might seem like a very strange thing to do in the bedroom, but there are a lot of guys that love this. The nipple is a very common erogenous zone on the female and male body. Knowing how to properly kiss, touch and such on his nipples can be something that sets you apart from all of his past lovers. Much like other body parts, nipples come in different sizes and shapes. If your boyfriend or husband wants you to play with his nipples you need to know how to do it the right way. Here is a short guide to help you along.

Sensitivity In The Nipples

A man’s nipple is much like a woman’s. There are going to be varying degrees of sensitivity in his nipples that will affect the amount of pleasure and pain that he feels. When you are to use this during sex you need to know what kind of sensitivity he has and how you can use this to your advantage. Some guys are really into rough sex so making it hurt a little could be a turn on. When you are rubbing or sucking on his nipples, don’t be afraid to get a little rough. See how he reacts when you take this type of approach. Smaller nipples are going to be a little more sensitive than larger ones so make sure that you are careful if your guy has a smaller set.

Ask Him What He Likes

There is no greater way to find out what he likes than to actually ask what he likes. Asking your man how he likes his nipples to be played with might take a little of the mystery out of the equation, but you’re taking the shortest route to finding out what he likes and how you can really turn him. Ask him to get specific when he tells you. Guys might be a little nervous at first, but encourage him that you’re not going to judge what he likes. Some men find it a little effeminate to talk about getting their nipples played with, but creating a comfortable environment without judgment should bring him out of his shell. Taking the time to make him more comfortable with you and what he wants is going to bring you both closer together.

Nipple Biting

Biting can be a turn on but like everything in life, too much is never a good thing. If your guy wants you to bite on his nipples, make sure that you aren’t biting him to hard or it will not only send him running out of the room, it’s also going to give him a less than pleasurable experience. If you do decide that this something you’re going to do to him, gauge his expressions. Is he giving you looks of desire or does it look like you’re torturing him? Being able to tell when he’s really enjoying something is not very difficult. He will probably tell you when you’re not doing something right or will let out a shrill. Watch him while you bite and you will be able to get it just right.

Variety

Nobody likes the same moves over and over again. When you are playing with his nipples make sure that you are putting a lot of variety into it. Pull on his nipples for a little bit and then let go. Kiss him or give him oral sex and then come and suck on them. The last thing that you want to do is give monotony. Men who like to have their nipples played with are very open minded so keep this in the forefront of your process when you are trying to get him turned on. Once he is turned on you will be able to go much further with your nipple play.

Extremes

There are going to be guys out there that want you to go to the extreme with their nipples. Be careful with this. Some guys think that they want you to do things and then once they’re done they realize that it was a bad idea. If he says he wants it, make sure that you ease into any extremes. Playing with a guy’s nipples are one thing but biting hard, slapping or pinching hard can cause bleeding and damage to his body. Don’t go to the extreme unless your guy tells you it’s alright. It’s always good practice to have a safe word for when it’s too much for him to handle. ;-)


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