4 Simple Ways To Build Sexual Tension

Sex tips will come in handy when you are trying to build sexual tension. However, you must understand that women’s minds work indirectly. Women don’t try to find concrete solutions to problems. They prefer to talk them “out of their system.”

A woman comes home from work and tells her boyfriend that another co-worker is driving her crazy. The man tries to solve this issue for her by giving her suggestions, such as “just talk to her about it”, or “go tell your story to the boss.” But women don’t want solutions, they want to express their feelings to “get them off their chests.”

So how can you apply this to attracting women? If you understand how women think, you are much better able to communicate with them on their level, or “speak the same language.” You will also not have to deal with rejection.

1. Answer Questions With Questions

Often men make the mistake of bringing up topics like,

“I went to X school…”
“I live in X city…”
“I work in X industry…”

Many men meet women and then use these topics because they run out of things to say. Big mistake.

How can you tell that you’re doing well with women? When they start asking YOU these questions. There’s no point bringing up these topics before they’re really important. Do you really want to know the occupation of the guy passing you in the street? Most likely, you don’t care.

Well, women feel exactly the same way.

Unless a woman is already interested or curious about you, she won’t ask these questions. This is where you can build tension without much thinking. Answer her questions with questions.

2. Be A Blank Canvas

If she knows nothing about you, she’ll want to know something.“He was amazing! But I don’t know anything about him. Where does he work? How old is he?”

Why do we do this? Because the more a woman needs to fill in the blanks, the more she’s thinking about you. The more she thinks about you, the more she’ll like you. Singles are more likely to be interested when they do not know anything about you.

3. Don’t Give In To Her

After a woman begins to show interest she may say things like, “Do you like my hair?” “Why would you do that? Is it because you don’t like me?” This is where most guys crumble while they are flirting.

Never give in to this. Instead, brush off her questions and never directly answer them. If a woman says, “Oh, I can’t believe you did that! Is it because you don’t like me?” and you say, “No, no, I do like you, I’m sorry.” Bam! You’ve just lost the upper hand and the woman has found out exactly what she wanted to know.

If you want to keep women interested, you need to keep them curious and keep them guessing. You can do this by putting down her comments. These questions present a great opportunity to build tension by teasing her further. “Do you like my hair?” “No, not really.” “Why? Are you trying to bring the 60’s back into fashion?”

“Do you like my hair?”
“Well, do you like it?”
“Why do you want to know?”

After you tease a woman about her dorky hair, walk, tag sticking out of her jeans, or whatever it is you have identified to tease, she might respond with a test like “Oh but you love me anyway!” As a general rule: never say “yes.”

4. Don’t Lose Her Interest

Many women stop being interested in men once they find out the men like them. This is a solid fact that I can verify. Many women I’ve spoken to say they lose interest and stop calling men once they know the men like them.

“Awe… but you love me!”
“Do I?”
“Is that what you think?”

If the woman asks personal questions, answer them with sarcastic and humorous answers

What’s your name? How old are you? These questions women are most likely to ask when they’re interested in you.

Men will then usually resort to tedious factual answers with bad body language that will not lead to the kind of flirtatious exchange that engages a woman’s attention. It’s not that these questions are bad – they just shouldn’t be used in a first encounter.

When women hit you with standard questions like these, it’s a good idea to have cheeky indirect answers ready to throw back at them. Playful and absurd remarks work the best. Here are some examples of better responses:

If you don’t talk in a playful tone of voice you’ll come across as serious, arrogant or just weird and you will never get a first kiss. On the other hand, if you answer her questions playfully with logical answers you’ll seem childish and feminine. So make sure your comments are both playful and absurd.

Of course you can’t keep this charade up forever, but by answering her questions in a funny way, you show her that you have a fun personality and don’t take the date too seriously. You can always answer these questions later if they keep coming up.


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