How To UNLOCK A Woman’s Sexual Code

Sex tips are a great help when giving your girl an orgasm, but what if you could go deeper than that? What if you could get unleash her inner freak?

Imagine this situation:

You’re really excited. You find her hot. You find her sexy. Things are going well and it looks like you might “get lucky.”

And then you start thinking to yourself, “Am I going to be able to please her in the bedroom? Am I going to be able to be the most dynamic lover she’s ever had? Am I going to be able to bring her to multiple orgasms until she begs me for more? Am I going to be the man that’s her best lover ever and is she going to be willing to do all the things that I want done to me?”

These are questions that haunt a lot of men on a regular basis. Men everywhere want to know how to unlock her sexual code and how to make sure that she begs for more. Let me tell you how.

Emotions Play A Significant Role

There’s so much mindset to sex that a lot of men don’t pay attention to. A lot of men are very physical; when they’re attracted to a woman, all they want to do is rip her clothes off and penetrate her immediately and have incredible intercourse that’s going to blow their mind away. But they don’t understand the way women really think.

Somebody told me a long, long time ago that if you can please a woman in bed—and it all starts with pleasing her emotionally first and really connecting to her emotionally—she’ll do anything for you. She’ll truly believe that you are the first man to be attentive to all her needs, the man that understands her on all levels.

A lot of guys don’t think that way. A lot of guys just want to go, get a woman in the sack, have sex with her for five or six minutes and hope that she gets off. Those moans and groans that you hear when you’re banging her are not necessarily moans and groans of pleasure. They’re moans and groans of disappointment, a disappointment that you are not taking the time on her the way she needs.

It’s all about understanding the way a woman’s mind thinks when it comes down to sex. You’ve got to understand her emotional core, what she needs. She needs to feel safe, she needs to feel the attraction, and she needs to hear words.

“You look hot. You’re beautiful.” Say it, whatever it might be. She needs to feel like you’re there, in tune with her. She may want to warm up to you, and spend the time kissing. And if you want to become a good kisser, mimic her kissing style. If she comes at you with a soft tongue, come back at her with a soft tongue. If she comes at you hard, come back at her hard.

Teasing Is Pleasing!

It all comes down to teasing her body and not going immediately for the clitoris or finger banging her immediately. It’s all about taking your time almost like you’re driving down a long, winding road. You want to be able to spend as much time on her body, teasing her.

You also don’t want to sleep with her the very first time you get her naked. You want to drive her crazy. The more you drive her crazy, the better the sex is going to be for her.

It’s all about understanding her need to feel safe and secure. She wants to give you her body. Too many men do not understand that. They don’t spend the time on the mindset of sex. All they do is think about the physical side of sex. If you think about the mindset, then you think about licking her like an ice cream cone, spending the time to savor each and every drop.

Becoming the most dynamic lover is not just about physical. It’s about understanding her emotional core and then seducing and teasing her. If you’re able to give her what she’s always desired when all the men before you have disappointed—you win.


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