Sexting: Why “Dirty Texts” Turn Women On Like Crazy

Sexting your partner is one of the most powerful ways you can get her hot and ready for sex. Sexting is an easy way to speak the language of a woman, and it’s convenient because you can do it anywhere and anytime. Sending your lover a racy text takes very little effort on your part, but the results are absolutely astounding! Check out how you can send your girl a “racy text” and have her all over you by the time you walk through the front door after work.

Women Are Wired Differently Than Men

It’s pretty obvious that women are wired differently than men, especially when it comes to what turns them on. Men are visual creatures and respond sexually to visual stimuli, including porn videos and pictures of naked women. However, a woman usually can’t look at a picture of a naked man with muscled arms and six pack abs. While looking great is always going to be a check in the plus column for you, it’s not going to be something that immediately turns your woman on. What will get a girl hot though is language. To effectively get a woman thinking about sex and nothing but sex, you’ve got to engage her brain. This is why sexting is so effective for women – it gets their imagination going. It’s like if she wore sexy lingerie for you – when you sext her, you speak her language. In the old days, to get a girl interested in him, guys had to write love letters and poetry for women. Now, we have technology that helps streamline communication between one person and another.

Using Sensual Language

When sexting your partner, you can use sensual language to get your partner horny with just the push of a few buttons – no matter where you are or what you’re doing! This is exactly what makes sexting so powerful. You can have your girl clawing at your clothes as soon as you walk in the door, all from the sensual sexts you sent her on her lunch break. Depending on how racy you want to be, you can send her texts that are sweet, sensual and full of romance or you can send her texts that tell her what exactly – word for word – you’re going to do to her when you get home. You can start sweet and gradually increase the raciness of your texts to sweep her off her feet and then get her so hot she won’t know what to do with herself.

She’ll Never Leave Home Without It

Think about it – a woman will rarely ever leave the house without two things – her lipgloss and her cell phone. These days, just about every girl uses a cell phone! Her cell phone is precious to her, because she keeps her most personal and private information in there including her friends, her family, her contacts and her pictures. By sexting her, you’re connecting with your partner in one of the most private ways. It creates a type of “secret” sexual connection that only you and her share. It blows through all of your lover’s defenses, hitting her right at the center. The majority of ladies really enjoy the idea of getting to be secretly naughty in public, especially when they’re supposed to be “proper” and “professional.” Sexting is also a great way to break the ice when getting into dirty talk in the bedroom. If you’ve never tried it before, sexting is a great way to introduce yourself!

Stop Texting And Start Sexting

To effectively create this “secret” sensual channel between you and your lover, you need to stop texting her completely and send only racy texts when you want to. Don’t text “to do” lists or what time the dog has an appointment at the vet’s the next day. This will actually ruin the whole stigma you’re trying to create with sexting. When you do this and she feels her phone vibrate for a message, she’ll already be expecting something exciting and titillating. She’ll know before she opens her phone that it’s from you and it’s something secretly kinky! She’ll start looking forward to it and start wondering when it’s going to happen and what the texts are going to say. She’ll also get better at sending you sexy texts back, telling you what she wants to do to you! This is such a super hot way to think about each other during a boring, monotonous work day. Try sexting your partner tonight and watch as the sparks fly!


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