Dating will easily teach you to expect the unexpected. Does this sound familiar? You went out on a date with this amazing man. You thought that the sparks were flying and you are thinking that this might be a guy you want to have start having some great sex with. You haven’t had sex in a while and you can’t remember the last time that you had hot sex. You truly believe that this is the guy that is going to break that dry spell. There was something different about him, something unique about him, something that made you feel like a beautiful, sexy woman again.
The only problem is you went out a few times and now he’s not calling you back. You can’t believe it. You thought there was just this incredible chemistry. You’re thinking, “What did I do wrong?” Here’s the deal.What you’re ‘doing wrong’ right now is you’re obsessing.
Whenever you sit around and you obsess about a man not calling you back, basically what you’re doing is you’re telling the universe that you’re not worthy of a great man. You’re driving your friends up the wall when you do that. They don’t want to hear it anymore. They don’t know why he hasn’t called you back.
They have no clue at all why this man has not called you back. You go through this ridiculous session with them saying, “Do you think I said this wrong or that wrong?” And you obsess about it. You actually get them to give you their opinion on why he hasn’t called back, but your friends don’t know anything about him.
So how do you get him to call you back?
1. Stop Obsessing And Call Yourself
When he answers the phone, don’t mention that he never called you and don’t be rude or accusatory. Be sweet and flirt when he answers the phone. If he doesn’t answer the phone, leave him a tantalizing little message. “Hey, been thinking about you. How are you? Where did you disappear off to?” That’s it.
2. Text The Guy
If you’re too afraid, then you can send a text. It’s the exact same thing. “Hey, you. Where did you disappear to? Did aliens abduct you?” It’s about just being fun and it’s about being clever.
3. Forget About The Guy
If you haven’t heard back in a few days after a great date and he doesn’t return your texts, then you’re obsessing. And if you obsess for way too long, you’re going to turn the energy off for meeting other singles. You’re giving your power away to a guy that doesn’t deserve the the gift of who you are.
I don’t care if you think you had great chemistry. Dating isn’t just about chemistry. It’s not one thing you said or another thing. You know what it is? It just didn’t work out. He made a choice not to pursue it anymore and you need to be okay with that.
You’re a beautiful, incredible, amazing woman and you deserve better. Open up your eyes and go meet another guy. If you’re obsessed with a guy, your eyes aren’t open, and you’ll miss the next great guy who is right around the corner because you’re too busy thinking about a guy that doesn’t deserve your attention.