As guys its not very hard to get blinded by the beauty of a woman we’re dating. We like to feel good about ourselves and having a pretty girl on our arm is one of the biggest confidence boosters out there. Because of this, it’s not hard to see why so many guys put up with the games and pitfalls of women just to keep them around.
If you feel like you’re dating Mrs. Wrong then it’s time to open your eyes and break it off before you get too attached. Dating the wrong woman, and the eventual breakup, is enough to shake any guys confidence. By taking control you can soothe this pain and avoid the downsides of dating these types of women.
Here are 5 red flags that tell you you’re dating Mrs. Wrong.
She Still Talk To Her Exes
Okay, so there are a lot of women that still talk to their exes. They might be friends or they might just keep in touch via Facebook. But if you find that she’s spending more time on the phone with her ex than you, it’s time to top dating her.
Girls that still keep in touch with their exes on a regular basis are trouble. They either haven’t gotten over him or they are still in love with him. Very rarely is it at all innocent. Make it a point to tell her how uncomfortable it makes you that she still talks to her exes. If she doesn’t stop, call it quits immediately. She either doesn’t care about you enough to forgo her previous relationship or she doesn’t care how it makes you feel. Either way, she’s no good.
She Never Pays
It’s generally accepted that men should pay on a date, but if she’s never paying you should raise your eyebrows. Women that never pay for their own meals have entitlement issues. They usually come from families where they are catered to and spoiled or they think that they are hot enough for guys to be lucky enough to pay for everything they do.
This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t take your girl out for dinner and be the gentleman, but if she just stands there waiting for you to pay every time, it’s probably time to find somebody else. There are more than enough guys that willing to be a sugar daddy. Don’t drain your own wallet for a girl because she could leave you once the money train runs out.
You Never Know Where She Is
This is one red flag that guys usually get very quickly. If you never know where the girl you’re dating is – changes are its not good. On the off chance that she’s hiding the fact that she volunteers a soup kitchen (which has never and will never happen), she’s probably up to something.
The most common excuses are that she’s working late, she’s going out with the girls, or that she needs some alone time.
These can seem perfectly fine until the facts start to come apart at the seams. It’s not hard to pick up on when a girl is lying to you or when she’s nervous. If you think that she’s lying, more than likely she is. Don’t get played and don’t give into gullibility.
If it feels wrong then you need to move on and stop dating her. Most guys will launch their investigations, but you really don’t have to. The feeling of dishonesty is more than enough to break things off. If you don’t, you’re just setting yourself up for trust issues down the road.
She Hangs Out With A Lot Of Guys
“I just get along with guys better than girls.” Have you ever heard this statement? Run! Run! Run! This is a huge red flag.
Girls that hang around with a lot of guys are always looking for attention. If your attention isn’t enough for her then you need to move on. As stated before, this can be a big trust issue down the road and you should avoid these women at all costs. You will always have something in the back of your mind telling you that something isn’t right and you should listen to it. This is gong to save you a lot of time and a lot of heartache.
When a girl hangs around a lot of guys she is always comparing you to them. Don’t put up with this childlike competition. Get rid of her and move on to a girl that relate to her own gender.