Dating can be tricky business. However, by following the below 10 dating tips, you can increase your chances of having a positive... continue reading
Dating can be tricky business. However, by following the below 10 dating tips, you can increase your chances of having a positive experiences.
1. How do you start dating again?
Return to the dating scene at your own pace. Just get up and socialize in whichever ways you feel comfortable with. The worst thing you can do is move too fast so take your time no matter which route you choose to find your dates.
2. What should you do?
In this dangerous world of dating, you should be careful not to give out too much of your personal information in the beginning. Take things slow, ask a lot of questions, research your dates past, and/or do a background check.
An ounce of prevention can prevent a lifetime of heartache. Learn as much information about your date as possible which will, in turn, help the conversation flow to topics of interest. Information about their families, pets, favorite food, birthdays, favorite movies, etc. make wonderful topics and usually you can learn enough to know if you will be compatible.
3. What should you never do?
Don’t talk about your exes or intense commitment on the first date. It’s important to have fun and not take things too seriously in the beginning. Don’t have sex until you’ve done your homework on this person. If they are interested and enjoy your company, they’ll call back. Don’t brag about yourself and your accomplishments. Instead, focus on your partner’s interests.
4. Where can one find people of the same age?
Take a new class, join a club, have your friends set you up, try on-line dating, go to sporting events, church, school, socialize at parties, adopt a dog and go to the park, join a gym. Most importantly, be active and get out there.
5. How do you introduce yourself?
Simply be friendly and be yourself. Smile, shake hands and most importantly, have manners.
6. What should you do if you have a date?
Take time to groom yourself, be polite, be punctual and relax. This isn’t a job interview. If it doesn’t work out, it’s not the end of the world. Pick an activity that you both enjoy. Nothing can ruin a date like an activity that one person isn’t interested in.
7. When should you run away?
Red flags would be talking about an ex repeatedly or negatively, discussing serious topics like marriage and children on the first date, excessive bragging or coming on to strong sexually on the first date.
8. How long should you wait to call them?
There is no set rule on how long you should wait to call the other person. If they phone you first, return their call within a 24 hour period. If you don’t hear from them after the date, wait a few days and then phone to see how they are doing.
9. How long should you wait to have sex?
You should definitely not have sex on the first few days because this makes the other person assume you are easy and do this with everyone. Take your time and get to know the person.
Don’t drink or use drugs on your date because this will lower your inhibitions and you, in turn, will make poor decisions. A good rule to follow is the longer you wait to have sex, the more special it will be.
10. What other tips are important?
Smile, have fun and don’t be too serious. If your are too serious or pushy, you’ll come across as desperate. Split the bill 50/50 so both parties don’t feel any pressure. Be friendly and confident. There’s nothing more attractive than charm.