Finally! A step-by-step guide on how to meet women that makes meeting women fun and easy for any guy! I have a question… (And you have... continue reading
Finally! A step-by-step guide on how to meet women that makes meeting women fun and easy for any guy! I have a question…
(And you have to be honest with me here!)
Is meeting women hard for you to do? Do you feel afraid when it comes to meeting women?
And is that fear keeping you from succeeding and keeping you lonely and alone?
If so, don’t worry. I’m going to give you some incredible bits of advice you can use that will help you meet great women, and help you to take control of your love life and overcome your fear!
It’s not all about instinct
Meeting women should be a piece of cake. After all, that’s what you’re biologically programmed for, right? Nope!
Despite what you might think and what others may tell you, the fact is that us men are not born already knowing how to naturally meet and attract women. (Believe me, I wish that WAS the case, but its not, unfortunately.)
Knowing how to meet women is something you LEARN, not something you’re “born with.” Just like any skill, you have to LEARN how to meet and talk to women, just like you have to learn to speak Spanish, play the guitar, and recite your A-B-C’s.
It’s a SKILL. And skills are learned, not instinctual.
No worries…help is on the way!
So if you currently don’t know how to meet women, don’t worry, there is NOTHING wrong with you! You just haven’t learned enough to make meeting women something that’s comfortable and easy yet.
Sadly, there are tons and tons of men out there who are too afraid to meet women, and because of that they stay home alone over the weekend when they should be out meeting girls.
And even worse – most of these guys will never do anything to overcome this fear.
This is due to the fact that these men don’t realize just how much their lives are controlled by this fear! And they justify this fear of going out and meeting women by thinking of all the things that could go wrong.
Some guys have such a dim view of themselves as attractive men that they think a girl they’re interested in is going to laugh at them, or dismiss them, or tell them off. Maybe she’ll throw her drink in their face, or maybe they’ll get beaten up by her boyfriend!
Never think the worst
Do you ever think of these as possibilities before you meet a girl? Because if you do, then you are actually TRAINING yourself to be scared and take no action to meet women.
In short: You are practicing FAILURE.
The fact is – most of these irrational fears you’re worried about hardly ever happen in real life.
All these fears stem from poor experiences you may have had when you were young (junior high or middle school age) or you picked them off of television or movies and think they could actually apply to your real life.
It’s sad that so many men allow fears like these to shape their attitudes and beliefs about meeting and dating women.
In contrast, there are other men out there who were fortunate enough to have positive experiences with girls early on in their development. These experiences helped banish irrational fears about meeting women, which helped set them up for a lot of success with women as they got older.
It’s never too late
But even if you started off on the wrong foot in seventh grade, you can still take control of your fears of meeting women. You don’t have to be in high school to become a superstar with the ladies!
What you need to start doing right now is re-learn how to talk to women, and you’ll have to be willing to re-examine your current beliefs and attitudes that might be holding you back from success and change them to make meeting women easier.
But that’s difficult for most guys to do. It’s no problem to say you want to learn how to meet women easily, but it’s doing the work that’s the hardest part.
You need to want it badly enough!
Don’t let fear hold you back
Don’t be one of those guys who lets fear keep him from meeting the type of woman he’s always dreamed about. If you see a girl you want to meet – say SOMETHING. Even if you don’t know what to say, just take a chance.
Try these 5 tips for meeting women
- Ask her for directions.
- Ask for her opinion on something.
- Playfully tease her about something she’s wearing or something she’s doing. At least make an effort to take an interest in her and be curious about who she is as a person.
- Pay her a genuine and sincere compliment! What do you have to lose?
- Quickly figure out something to talk to her about – exact words aren’t as important as the act of walking over to her and engaging her in conversation. If you let too much time pass by from the second you see her to the time you start talking, you give yourself a chance to chicken out. (If this freaks you out, memorize some good opening lines beforehand so you’ll know what to say.)
Don’t try and measure success based on if you got her phone number or a date.
Just the simple act of approaching a woman and talking to her makes you a winner, because you did something that 80% of the other men out there wouldn’t have done!
And the more you can do that, the greater your chances of meeting that one special woman.
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