Asexual Wanting BDSM But Not Sex – Is It The Medication?
A self-proclaimed asexual begins taking medication and now finds herself having a strong sex drive – not only wanting sex, but BDSM as well! Is this normal? Is she falling out...
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Help! My Boyfriend Wants To Be Tied Up!
If your partner is into BDSM and you’ve never tried it before, it can be kind of intimidating if you don’t know where to start. Don’t be! You don’t have to start with...
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Rough, Hard Sex – Is It A Fetish, Or Something More?
There are as many ways to have sex as there are people in the world – whether you enjoy slow, sensual intimacy with your partner or a little raunchy fun, sex is an incredible...
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What’s Your Safe Word? How to Get Off Without Getting Hurt
You’ve seen the stories in the news – a woman dies during a sex play session with her husband. The articles are vague, but they usually mention the word “kinky,” a...
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Is It Normal For a Virgin to Be Into BDSM?
As a virgin, it’s normal to find yourself turned on and sexually excited by many things, even if you’ve never actually had sexual intercourse. What turns you on is going to...
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Tools of the Trade… Your BDSM Shopping List
So are you ready to get your kink on? What will you need? Where are you going to get it? How crazy do you want to be? This article will offer an interesting twist on classic...
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Are You Dom or Sub? Sexual Compatibility in the Bedroom
“Harder,” I whispered in the dark. He tried to oblige and picked up the pace a bit. “Harder!” I asked again. I needed it rough. With that he stopped mid-thrust and it...
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BDSM 101 – Moving Beyond Plain Vanilla Sex
A male friend of mine told me about something embarrassing that happened to him. He was in the throes of passionate sex with his girlfriend when, in a gesture of instinct, he put...
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How to Get Your Freak On – The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM
A few months ago, I was talking to my new sex partner about what I liked in bed. “I like it a little rough,” I said, “You know, some hair pulling and some smacks on my butt...
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The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist
It’s a Pervert Party, and you’re invited! Copy this list into a word processing program so you can edit it, or print it out. For each question assign a number based on this...
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Ooh, It Hurts So Good: Sadism & Masochism – The Pleasure of Pain…
The first time I ever had sex was on the hardwood floor of a friend’s house. He was older, on top, and yep, it hurt. But I was amazed at how receptive I was to that...
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What Everyone Ought to Know About BDSM
That’s right, acronyms aren’t just for the office anymore – it can be a regular alphabet soup in the bedroom, too. I’m talking about BDSM – the ultimate antidote to...
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