How Do I Introduce BDSM To My Boyfriend?

Everyone has their fantasy or fetish, and everyone likes different things. It’s part of what makes us such a sexually diverse culture! Many people are into BDSM, or bondage,...

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Help! My Boyfriend Wants To Be Tied Up!

If your partner is into BDSM and you’ve never tried it before, it can be kind of intimidating if you don’t know where to start. Don’t be! You don’t have to start with...

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What’s Your Safe Word? How to Get Off Without Getting Hurt

You’ve seen the stories in the news – a woman dies during a sex play session with her husband. The articles are vague, but they usually mention the word “kinky,” a...

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Is It Normal For a Virgin to Be Into BDSM?

As a virgin, it’s normal to find yourself turned on and sexually excited by many things, even if you’ve never actually had sexual intercourse. What turns you on is going to...

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How to Get Your Freak On – The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM

A few months ago, I was talking to my new sex partner about what I liked in bed. “I like it a little rough,” I said, “You know, some hair pulling and some smacks on my butt...

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The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist

It’s a Pervert Party, and you’re invited! Copy this list into a word processing program so you can edit it, or print it out. For each question assign a number based on this...

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Ooh, It Hurts So Good: Sadism & Masochism – The Pleasure of Pain…

The first time I ever had sex was on the hardwood floor of a friend’s house. He was older, on top, and yep, it hurt. But I was amazed at how receptive I was to that...

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What Everyone Ought to Know About BDSM

That’s right, acronyms aren’t just for the office anymore – it can be a regular alphabet soup in the bedroom, too. I’m talking about BDSM – the ultimate antidote to...

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BDSM Dilemma – Should I Tell My Parents?

No matter how close children are to their parents there are some things that probably shouldn’t be shared – and sexual preferences is one of them. Most of the time parents...

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