Q&A: How To Fantasize Without Sounding Like A Pervert

In a new sexual relationship, it can be nerve wracking to share your sexual fantasies, likes and dislikes with your new partner. Will they judge you? Will you sound like a...

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When Orgasms Are Dangerous… What Is Erotic Asphyxiation?

You may have heard of erotic asphyxiation, or autoerotic asphyxiation, in the news, on television or in movies. Some crime shows and even crime fiction novels have used erotic...

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Q&A: BDSM and Fetishes – When Your Fantasies Don’t Line Up

Everyone’s sexual fetishes are unique, and it’s not uncommon for two people who like very different things to be in a relationship together. Can you and your partner find...

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Sick Or Sexy – When He’s Daddy In The Bedroom

Everyone has their own kinks and fantasies that they like to play out in the bedroom. Whether it’s simple, missionary on top sex, or really kinky BDSM, everyone has something...

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Is My Kinkiness Beyond All Others?

Everyone has specific things they enjoy during sex, from the tame to the seemingly strange. While most people seem to fall into the so-called “normal” sex category, that is...

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How Do I Introduce BDSM To My Boyfriend?

Everyone has their fantasy or fetish, and everyone likes different things. It’s part of what makes us such a sexually diverse culture! Many people are into BDSM, or bondage,...

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Is Cross Dressing A Turn Off To Women?

Cross dressing isn’t something that’s a totally foreign concept to women, but not many of them have dated a guy that likes to cross dress. Does that mean cross dressing is a...

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Help! I Fantasize About Being A Prostitute!

Everyone has a fantasy – some, more than others. Many people choose not to act out their fantasies, afraid that their fantasies will offend someone, or embarrass them. You can,...

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Help! My Boyfriend Wants To Be Tied Up!

If your partner is into BDSM and you’ve never tried it before, it can be kind of intimidating if you don’t know where to start. Don’t be! You don’t have to start with...

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Are My Sexual Fetishes And Kinky Fantasies Bad?

Almost everyone has a sexual fetish or fantasy of some kind, but many people don’t like to admit it. Society has put sort of a damper on being open and honest about what turns...

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What’s Your Safe Word? How to Get Off Without Getting Hurt

You’ve seen the stories in the news – a woman dies during a sex play session with her husband. The articles are vague, but they usually mention the word “kinky,” a...

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Are You Dom or Sub? Sexual Compatibility in the Bedroom

“Harder,” I whispered in the dark. He tried to oblige and picked up the pace a bit. “Harder!” I asked again. I needed it rough. With that he stopped mid-thrust and it...

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