BDSM 101 – Moving Beyond Plain Vanilla Sex

A male friend of mine told me about something embarrassing that happened to him. He was in the throes of passionate sex with his girlfriend when, in a gesture of instinct, he put...

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Is it Possible to be a Shy Dominatrix?

Those are two words that you don’t normally see in the same sentence: shy and dominatrix. Is it possible to be both? Here’s a question from Melissa who is a little...

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Is Having Cyber Sex Before Physical Sex a Good Idea?

These days it’s nearly impossible to begin a relationship without using some form of cyber communication during those critical “getting to know you” weeks. From meeting...

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5 Wicked Ways to Get Kinky in the Kitchen

It’s no surprise to learn one of the sexiest places in a house is the kitchen; the delicious smells, the beautiful colors, the way everything simmers together, tempting our...

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Did You Get Your Fun, Sexy Halloween Costume Yet?

Think back to your childhood for a moment, and remember all the fun you had with playing dress up and trying on all those cool costumes for Halloween… And then ask yourself…...

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Turn Fantasies into Reality with Sexy Lingerie

The female body is a thing of beauty, and nudity can be very satisfying. But full nudity is rarely involved in true seduction. The fine art of teasing with what is just out of...

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Rough Sex and BDSM – Going Beyond The Occasional Spanking

Rough sex is an extremely popular but largely underground sexual fantasy. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen much, it just means people are usually afraid to talk about...

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Playing Mind Games in Love and Sex – Should You Really Do it?

I found this great post today from Seduction 101.  It really got me thinking, because Dan and I love to play games! "She’s playing games with him." "He’s playing games with...

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