BDSM 101 – Moving Beyond Plain Vanilla Sex

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A male friend of mine told me about something embarrassing that happened to him. He was in the throes of passionate sex with his girlfriend when, in a gesture of instinct, he put his hand over her face.Immediately she froze in horror and blurted, “What are you doing?”Well, how do you answer … [Read more...]

How to Get Your Freak On – The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM

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A few months ago, I was talking to my new sex partner about what I liked in bed. “I like it a little rough,” I said, “You know, some hair pulling and some smacks on my butt while we’re having sex.”He sat and pondered this and said, “Have you ever been bent over someone’s knee and … [Read more...]

The Beautiful Kind’s Ultimate BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist

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It’s a Pervert Party, and you’re invited!Copy this list into a word processing program so you can edit it, or print it out.For each question assign a number based on this scale:5 = This is something I REALLY like. Bring it on, baby! 4 = This is fun! Let’s go for it. 3= I'm not sure, kinda … [Read more...]

Ooh, It Hurts So Good: Sadism & Masochism – The Pleasure of Pain…

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The first time I ever had sex was on the hardwood floor of a friend’s house. He was older, on top, and yep, it hurt. But I was amazed at how receptive I was to that discomfort, how I welcomed it and accepted it as part of the complete sex package. Years later, I still feel that mingling of … [Read more...]

What Everyone Ought to Know About BDSM

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That’s right, acronyms aren't just for the office anymore – it can be a regular alphabet soup in the bedroom, too.I’m talking about BDSM - the ultimate antidote to vanilla sex.Sure sex feels good on its own, but have you ever thought about taking it up a notch, pushing your boundaries? Do you … [Read more...]