Ear Warmer Sex Position

Sex Position: Ear Warmer

The Ear Warmer sex position is a simple variation of the Spread Eagle, where she has more control and may be more comfortable than with her legs spread.

How To Do It

The female partner lies back and spreads her legs long enough for her partner to lie on his stomach and place his head in between to give her oral sex. Instead of keeping her legs spread like with the Spread Eagle sex position, she closes her legs somewhat, resting her inner thighs on either side of her lover’s head. This gives her more control during cunnilingus, and many women may be more comfortable with their hips at this angle.

Where To Do It

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The bed is a super comfortable and familiar area to do the Ear Warmer sex position on, but it can also be done on the edge of the bed (with her partner resting his knees on the floor) or on a couch.

Props You’ll Need

A pillow for her head, and possibly under her lower back to place her hips at an angle that makes oral sex easier for him to give.

Difficulty Level


Her O-Meter


With increased control and comfort, she can really lie back and relax in the Ear Warmer sex position. She loves receiving oral sex, and in this position he’s totally and completely focusing on her pleasure.

His O-Meter


The Ear Warmer sex position may not be his favorite if he wants to have more freedom for head movement. He may feel a little confined with her legs pressed up against his head.


He can easily use one of his hands to stimulate her g-spot while he’s licking her clitoris, which will bring her to orgasm even faster.

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