Hot Seat Sex Position

Sex Position: Hot Seat

The Hot Seat sex position is a combination between Woman On Top and rear entry. It’s perfect for when you’re craving something a little naughty, but not too difficult to do.

How To Do It

The male partner sits with his knees bent and his feet flat on the floor, supporting his torso on either a pillow or two or with his elbows. The female partner lowers herself onto her lover facing away from him, with her back to him and her legs bent in a similar way to his. Her hands are on his hips (not his stomach) to allow her to bear her own weight and use her muscles for thrusting and movement. You may only be able to achieve a grinding or rocking movement in this position, but many couples will enjoy how slow and sensual it is.

Where To Do It

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The Hot Seat sex position is great for the couch or a sturdy reclining chair, although it can also be done on the bed with pillows under the male partner for support.

Props You’ll Need

Pillows! Lots of them for him!

Difficulty Level


Her O-Meter


Her arms can get plenty tired in the Hot Seat sex position, and there’s little clitoral action going on here. However, the angle of penetration is such that it affords excellent g-spot stimulation! She may be able to coax herself to orgasm here, especially if she reaches down and stimulates her clitoris with her hand or a sex toy.

His O-Meter


He enjoys being “ridden” in the Hot Seat sex position, but there’s really nothing for him to look at other than her back. Since guys are visual creatures, they need to be able to see what is going on to really get off. But that doesn’t mean this position is a total bummer for him.


If the female partner has enough upper arm strength to lift herself up and down during lovemaking, it will allow her partner to see him sliding in and out of her, greatly increasing how hot the Hot Seat sex position is for him!

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