He Feels A Threesome Will Solve Our Sex Issues – I Disagree


Threesomes have long been touted as the "coveted" sexual thing that all men want but can rarely have. If your partner has brought up having a threesome in your relationship, you're likely not surprised - unless a "threesome" is your partner's idea of revving up your sex life. While this can help two … [Read more...]

Asexual Wanting BDSM But Not Sex – Is It The Medication?


A self-proclaimed asexual begins taking medication and now finds herself having a strong sex drive - not only wanting sex, but BDSM as well! Is this normal? Is she falling out of the asexual orientation, or does her medication have something to do with it? It may be confusing and intimidating, but … [Read more...]

Shoe Fetish – How Can I Find A Partner To Enjoy It With Me?


Many people have fetishes, whatever they may be. Some of the most common fetishes, however, are bondage and shoe fetishes. If you have a shoe fetish or another type of fetish, it might seem daunting to try to find a partner to enjoy your fetish with, but with a little searching, you can definitely … [Read more...]

What ME a Sex Addict?


Only a few of us think that the way we participate in sexual activity is addictive, but often the beginnings of sexual addictions show up in covert ways that we may miss if we are not attentive.I just spent three days at a symposium on addiction and the speakers there reminded me of just how … [Read more...]

How Keeping A Journal Can Reveal If Your Lover Is Cheating


Our minds aren’t perfect at remembering special details and specific facts. Far from it.Our brains work selectively; they store and recall certain bits of information while forgetting others.For example, you might remember, for whatever reason, a phone number that has little or no importance to … [Read more...]