eXtreme Sex Ed: I Feel Like I Have To Pee During Oral Sex!


Feeling like you have to urinate during oral sex, or any other type of sexual activity, can be quite unnerving the first time it happens. If it happens often, you might become even more confused or be tempted to avoid oral sex all together.Is it normal to feel like you have to urinate during oral … [Read more...]

Parents. You ARE The Sex Ed Teacher.


When was the last time you saw something on your Blackberry of a friend of yours was “sexting” in a photo they've sent you? Don't know what I'm talking about?Good. I didn't until hearing the terms passed around lately in the news and around young people.According to the Urban Dictionary.com (a … [Read more...]

What The Church Should Be Telling You About Sexuality But Isn’t…


I have heard every type of sermon in 30 years time ranging from the typical foundational teachings to Dr. Seuss (if you can believe it) as a reference for deeper truths.But the more typical subjects on sexual issues and relationship issues in the church and elsewhere range from marriage, single … [Read more...]

How To Move Beyond Childhood Abuse And Have Healthier Relationships As An Adult


Jim looked at Shannon with a cacophony of feelings; love, lust, appreciation and fear and wanted desperately to reach for her.Shannon could sense his looking at her, in spite of her back being turned to him as she washed the dishes.  Her spine tensed and she felt afraid and then angry.Jim felt … [Read more...]

Abstinence Only? Does it Really Work?


Shelby Knox is one of my biggest heroes!Who is she? She was a Lubbock, Texas high school student (she’s now in college as of this writing), a church attendee, and comes from a conservative home. Knox was also the subject of the PBS series “P.O.V.” called “The Education of Shelby Knox” where she is … [Read more...]